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Every ruling on this site links to its source. The backbone is Ibn al-Qayyim’s Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd bi-Aḥkām al-Mawlūd; where the schools differ, each is given from its own books. Every ḥadīth outside Bukhārī and Muslim carries its grading and the scholar who graded it.
The first hours
- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 5105
Abū Rāfiʿ: I saw the Messenger of Allah ﷺ call the adhān of the prayer into the ear of al-Ḥasan ibn ʿAlī when Fāṭimah gave birth to him.
Grading: Graded differently. al-Tirmidhī: ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ. al-Albānī first graded it ḥasan (Irwāʾ al-Ghalīl 1173), then weakened it (al-Kalim al-Ṭayyib 211; Ḍaʿīf Abī Dāwūd 5105). Ibn Ḥajar: it rests on ʿĀṣim ibn ʿUbayd Allāh, who is weak (al-Talkhīṣ al-Ḥabīr 4/1501). Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ: isnād ḍaʿīf.
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 1514
The same report of Abū Rāfiʿ. al-Tirmidhī said: “a ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ ḥadīth”. (His next remark, that scholars act on it, is about the ʿaqīqah: two sheep for a boy and one for a girl.)
Grading: al-Tirmidhī: ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ. al-Albānī (later): ḍaʿīf (Ḍaʿīf al-Tirmidhī 1514). Darussalam (on sunnah.com): ḍaʿīf.
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- al-Ḥusayn ibn ʿAlī (marfūʿ), Musnad Abī Yaʿlā 6780; Ibn al-Sunnī, ʿAmal al-Yawm wa-l-Laylah 623
Whoever has a child and gives the adhān in the right ear and the iqāmah in the left, Umm al-Ṣibyān (a harmful jinn) will not harm him.
Grading: mawḍūʿ (fabricated): al-Albānī, al-Silsilah al-Ḍaʿīfah 321. al-Bayhaqī: “in its chain is weakness” (Shuʿab al-Īmān). Ibn ʿAdī: not preserved. al-ʿIrāqī: isnād ḍaʿīf.
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- Ibn ʿAbbās, al-Bayhaqī, Shuʿab al-Īmān 8255
The Prophet ﷺ gave the adhān in al-Ḥasan’s right ear on the day he was born, and the iqāmah in his left.
Grading: mawḍūʿ (fabricated): al-Albānī, al-Silsilah al-Ḍaʿīfah 6121. ḍaʿīf: al-Bayhaqī (“in its chain is weakness”). Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ: its narrator al-Ḥasan ibn ʿAmr ibn Sayf is abandoned (matrūk), and Ibn al-Madīnī and al-Bukhārī accused him of lying.
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 499
ʿAbdullāh ibn Zayd’s report of the words of the adhān, which the Prophet ﷺ approved as a true vision.
Grading: ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, as shown on sunnah.com)
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ed. al-Arnaʾūṭ, ch. 4, pp. 30–31
The wisdom of the adhān: the first words to reach the child are Allah’s greatness and the testimony of faith, Shayṭān flees from it, and the call to Allah reaches the child before Shayṭān’s call. He also cites the iqāmah reports with al-Bayhaqī’s note that their chains are weak.
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- Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār (Ḥanafī) 1/385 and 1/387
The adhān is recommended (yundab) for the newborn. Whoever gives the adhān for a newborn should turn his face at “ḥayya ʿalā…” as in any adhān (1/387).
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- al-Ḥaṭṭāb, Mawāhib al-Jalīl (Mālikī) 1/434; 3/257
Mālik disliked giving the adhān in the newborn’s ear (reported by Ibn Abī Zayd). Some scholars recommended it. al-Ḥaṭṭāb: “people’s practice has run on it, so there is no harm in doing it.”
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ (Shāfiʿī) 8/442–443
The sunnah is to give the adhān in the newborn’s ear at birth, boy or girl, in the words of the prayer adhān; a group of scholars add the iqāmah in the left ear. Taḥnīk with a date is sunnah, or something sweet if there is no date; the one who does it should be a good person, “and if not a man, then a righteous woman”. The parent is congratulated with the words taught by al-Ḥusayn, and replies with a prayer.
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- al-Shabrāmallisī, Ḥāshiyah on al-Ramlī’s Nihāyat al-Muḥtāj (Shāfiʿī) 8/149
On “it is sunnah to give the adhān [in the newborn’s ear]”: “even from a woman, because this is not the adhān that is the duty of men; its purpose is only remembrance of Allah, for blessing.”
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- Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī) 9/464
Some scholars said it is recommended for the father to give the adhān in his child’s ear when born. ʿUmar ibn ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz would wrap his newborn in a cloth, give the adhān in the right ear and the iqāmah in the left, and name the child. Al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī’s words of congratulation. The Prophet ﷺ did taḥnīk with dates.
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- al-Buhūtī, Kashshāf al-Qināʿ (Ḥanbalī) 3/28–29
It is sunnah to give the adhān in the newborn’s right ear, boy or girl, when born, and the iqāmah in the left. Taḥnīk with a chewed date rubbed inside the mouth is sunnah.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5467
Abū Mūsā: a son was born to me and I brought him to the Prophet ﷺ. He named him Ibrāhīm, rubbed his palate with a date, prayed for blessing for him and gave him back to me.
Cited in The first hours, Choosing a name
- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5469
Asmāʾ bint Abī Bakr gave birth to ʿAbdullāh ibn al-Zubayr at Qubāʾ and brought him to the Prophet ﷺ, who chewed a date, put some in the baby’s mouth, did taḥnīk, prayed for him and blessed him. He was the first child born to the emigrants (Muhājirūn) after the Hijrah, and the Muslims rejoiced greatly.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2146a
The same event: ʿĀʾishah said they searched a while for a date before finding one, and the Prophet ﷺ named the baby ʿAbdullāh.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5470
Anas brought Umm Sulaym’s newborn son to the Prophet ﷺ with some dates. He chewed one, put it in the baby’s mouth, did taḥnīk and named him ʿAbdullāh.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2144a
Anas: the baby began to lick the softened date, and the Prophet ﷺ said, “The Anṣār love dates,” and named him ʿAbdullāh. The chapter title in Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim (added by later editors, not by Muslim): taḥnīk at birth, and carrying the baby to a righteous person to do it.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2147
ʿĀʾishah: newborn children used to be brought to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and he would pray for blessing upon them and do their taḥnīk.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 5, pp. 32–33
The ḥadīths of taḥnīk. When Imām Aḥmad’s son Saʿīd was born, Aḥmad asked for dates from Makkah, and a woman of the household chewed one and did the taḥnīk.
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- al-Buhūtī, Kashshāf al-Qināʿ 3/29
Taḥnīk is sunnah: a date is chewed and rubbed inside the baby’s mouth, and the mouth is opened so a little goes down.
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- al-Ḥaṭṭāb, Mawāhib al-Jalīl (Mālikī) 3/257
Yūsuf ibn ʿUmar: it is recommended that the first thing to reach the newborn’s stomach is something sweet, as the Prophet ﷺ did taḥnīk with a date.
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- US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Preventing Botulism
Do not feed honey to a child who is younger than 1 year old. Honey can contain the bacteria that cause botulism.
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- CDC, MMWR 60(9), “Premastication of Food by Caregivers of HIV-Exposed Children: Nine U.S. Sites, 2009–2010” (2011)
Premastication (chewing food before giving it to a child) has been documented to pass HIV, hepatitis B and group A streptococcus to children, and is associated with other infections.
Cited in The first hours, The hospital checklist
- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3371
The Prophet ﷺ used to seek refuge for al-Ḥasan and al-Ḥusayn: “I seek refuge in the perfect words of Allah from every devil and harmful creature, and from every envious eye”, saying that Ibrāhīm used to say it over Ismāʿīl and Isḥāq.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6334
Umm Sulaym said to the Prophet ﷺ, “Anas is your servant,” and he prayed: “O Allah, increase his wealth and children, and bless him in what You give him.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 143
The Prophet ﷺ prayed for the young Ibn ʿAbbās: “O Allah, give him understanding of the religion.”
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- Qurʾān, Āl ʿImrān 3:36
Maryam’s mother, after giving birth to a daughter, names her Maryam and places her and her offspring in Allah’s protection from the accursed devil.
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- Qurʾān, Āl ʿImrān 3:38
Zakariyyā prays: “My Lord, grant me from Your grace a good child; You hear every prayer.”
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- Qurʾān, Āl ʿImrān 3:39
The angels call to Zakariyyā while he prays: Allah gives you good news of Yaḥyā.
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- Qurʾān, Ibrāhīm 14:40
My Lord, make me one who keeps up the prayer, and my children too. Our Lord, accept my prayer.
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- Qurʾān, al-Furqān 25:74
Our Lord, give us joy and comfort in our spouses and our children, and make us an example for the God-fearing.
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- Qurʾān, al-Shūrā 42:49–50
He gives daughters to whom He wills and sons to whom He wills, or gives both.
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- Qurʾān, Maryam 19:7
Allah gives Zakariyyā the good news of a boy named Yaḥyā.
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- Qurʾān, al-Ṣāffāt 37:101
So We gave him (Ibrāhīm) the good news of a forbearing boy.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 3, pp. 27–29
It is recommended to bring the good news of a birth and to congratulate. One should not congratulate for a boy and not for a girl, but for both alike, to leave the custom of the Jāhiliyyah. Through Ibn al-Mundhir: al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī taught, “May the gift be blessed for you, may you thank the Giver, may the child reach maturity, and may you be granted the child’s kindness.”
Grading: A saying of al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī (a Successor), not a ḥadīth. al-Nawawī (al-Majmūʿ 8/443) attributes the same words to al-Ḥusayn ibn ʿAlī.
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For mothers: your first forty days
- Qurʾān, al-Baqarah 2:233
Mothers nurse their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the nursing. The father must provide for them and clothe them fairly. No soul is charged with more than it can bear. … If the two of them wish to wean by mutual consent and consultation, there is no blame on them; and if you want to have your children nursed by someone else, there is no blame on you, so long as you pay what you agreed, fairly.
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- Qurʾān, Luqmān 31:14
His mother carried him, weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be thankful to Me and to your parents.
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- Qurʾān, al-Aḥqāf 46:15
His mother bore him in pain and brought him into the world in pain; his bearing and weaning take thirty months.
- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 335c
ʿĀʾishah, on the monthly period: that would happen to us, and we were told to make up the fasts, and we were not told to make up the prayers.
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 139; also Sunan Abī Dāwūd 311, Sunan Ibn Mājah 648
Umm Salamah: in the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, a woman after childbirth would stay back (from prayer) for forty days.
Grading: Ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ: al-Albānī (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Tirmidhī 139; Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Mājah 536). Ḥasan: al-Nawawī (al-Majmūʿ 2/525; Khulāṣat al-Aḥkām 1/240); Darussalam (on sunnah.com). Ḥasan li-ghayrihi: al-Arnaʾūṭ. Some criticised the narrator Mussah al-Azdiyyah as unknown (al-Shawkānī, Ibn Kathīr) and al-Tirmidhī called it gharīb; others said its routes strengthen one another. Via dorar.net.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 306
ʿĀʾishah: Fāṭimah bint Abī Ḥubaysh asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: my bleeding does not stop; shall I leave the prayer? He said: no, that is from a vein, not the period. When the period comes, leave the prayer; when its time has passed, wash the blood from yourself and pray.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5971
A man asked who most deserves his good company. The Prophet ﷺ said: your mother. Then who? Your mother. Then who? Your mother. Then who? Your father.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 676
ʿĀʾishah was asked what the Prophet ﷺ did at home. She said: he would be busy serving his family, and when the time for prayer came he would go out to pray.
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 3895
The best of you is the best to his family, and I am the best of you to my family.
Grading: Ṣaḥīḥ: al-Albānī (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Tirmidhī 3895; al-Silsilah al-Ṣaḥīḥah 285); Darussalam (on sunnah.com); al-Arnaʾūṭ, “its chain is ṣaḥīḥ” (takhrīj of Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 4177). Via dorar.net.
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- Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār 1:299–300 (Bāb al-Ḥayḍ)
Nifās “has no limit for its least”; its longest is forty days; and “its ruling is like menstruation in everything” except a few listed matters.
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- al-Dardīr, al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr, with Ḥāshiyat al-Dasūqī 1:174–175
Nifās is blood that comes for the birth; its least is a single flow and its longest sixty days; “what it prevents is as with menstruation”.
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- al-Ramlī, Nihāyat al-Muḥtāj 1:356–358
The least nifās is a moment, the longest sixty days and the usual forty; and “what menstruation forbids, it forbids”.
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- Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī 1:250–252, 254
The longest nifās is forty days (Mālik and al-Shāfiʿī said sixty). It has no shortest time: whenever she sees she is clean, she bathes and she is pure; he adds that her husband should wait out the forty days as a recommendation. If bleeding goes past forty and matches her usual period, it is her period; otherwise istiḥāḍah, and she prays. 1:254: the woman in nifās is like the menstruating woman in all that is forbidden to her and lifted from her, “we know of no disagreement in this”.
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- HRSA, National Maternal Mental Health Hotline
1-833-TLC-MAMA (1-833-852-6262). For anyone pregnant or who has just had a baby: free, confidential, 24/7, in English and Spanish; call, text or chat.
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- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Available 24/7/365, free and confidential; call, text or chat 988. “Take care of a friend, a loved one, or yourself.”
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- National Institute of Mental Health, “Perinatal Depression” (NIH Publication No. 23-MH-8116, revised 2023)
“Baby blues” are mild, short mood changes in the first 2 weeks after birth; mood changes that are severe or last longer than 2 weeks may be postpartum depression, which generally does not get better without treatment. Postpartum psychosis is “a psychiatric emergency”: call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.
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- Postpartum Support International, “Postpartum Psychosis”
Usually begins in the first 2 weeks (but can come up to a year after birth); signs include delusions or strange beliefs and hallucinations; it is an emergency, and someone should stay with the mother and the baby.
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- CDC, HEAR HER: “Urgent Maternal Warning Signs and Symptoms” (updated 15 May 2024)
“Seek medical care immediately” for: a headache that won’t go away or gets worse; dizziness or fainting; changes in vision; fever of 100.4°F or higher; extreme swelling of hands or face; thoughts about harming yourself or your baby; trouble breathing; chest pain or a fast-beating heart; severe nausea and throwing up; severe belly pain that doesn’t go away; after pregnancy, heavy vaginal bleeding (soaking through one or more pads in an hour), passing clots bigger than an egg or tissue, or bad-smelling discharge; severe swelling, redness or pain of a leg or arm; overwhelming tiredness. These apply during pregnancy “and in the year after delivery”; tell the clinician you were pregnant within the last year.
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The hospital checklist
- CDC, “Preventing Botulism” (updated 26 February 2026)
“Do not feed honey to a child who is younger than 1 year old.” Honey can carry the bacteria that cause infant botulism.
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Khitān: circumcising your baby boy
- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5889
Abū Hurayrah: the Prophet ﷺ said, the fiṭrah is five things (or five things are of the fiṭrah): circumcision, removing the pubic hair, plucking the armpits, clipping the nails and trimming the moustache.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 257a
Abū Hurayrah: the fiṭrah is five things: circumcision, removing the pubic hair, clipping the nails, plucking the armpits and trimming the moustache.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3356
Abū Hurayrah: the Prophet ﷺ said, Ibrāhīm, peace be upon him, circumcised himself at the age of eighty, with an adze.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2370
Abū Hurayrah: the Prophet Ibrāhīm, peace be upon him, circumcised himself with an adze when he was eighty years old.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6299
Saʿīd ibn Jubayr: Ibn ʿAbbās was asked how old he was when the Prophet ﷺ died. He said: I had been circumcised by then. And they would not circumcise a boy until he was near maturity.
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 356
A man came to the Prophet ﷺ and said he had accepted Islam. He was told: remove from yourself the hair of disbelief. And a narrator says he was told the Prophet ﷺ said to another man with him: remove the hair of disbelief, and be circumcised.
Grading: Disputed. Ḥasan: al-Albānī (Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 356; Irwāʾ al-Ghalīl 1/120). Weak: Ibn Ḥajar, “there is a break in it” (al-Talkhīṣ al-Ḥabīr 4/1406); Ibn al-Qaṭṭān, “extremely weak, with a break” (Bayān al-Wahm 3/43); Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ, “its chain is weak” (takhrīj of Abū Dāwūd 356). Ibn Jurayj says “I was told” from an unnamed man, and ʿUthaym and his father are unknown. Gradings via dorar.net.
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- Jābir: “The Messenger of Allah ﷺ did the ʿaqīqah for al-Ḥasan and al-Ḥusayn and circumcised them at seven days” (al-Bayhaqī; al-Ṭabarānī, al-Muʿjam al-Ṣaghīr 909 and al-Awsaṭ)
A report that the Prophet ﷺ circumcised his grandsons on the seventh day.
Grading: Weak: al-Albānī (Irwāʾ al-Ghalīl 4/383, “Muḥammad ibn Abī al-Sarī is weak”); al-Dhahabī counts it among the munkar reports of Zuhayr al-Tamīmī (al-Muhadhdhab 7/3471); al-ʿIrāqī, “its chain is weak” (Takhrīj al-Iḥyāʾ 2/69); Ibn Bāz, weak. Via dorar.net.
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- Ibn ʿAbbās: “Seven things are sunnah for the child on the seventh day: he is named, circumcised …” (al-Ṭabarānī, al-Muʿjam al-Awsaṭ)
A report listing circumcision among the things done for a baby on the seventh day.
Grading: Weak: al-Albānī, munkar in this full wording (al-Silsilah al-Ḍaʿīfah 5432) and “weakness in its chain” (Tamām al-Minnah 68); Ibn Ḥajar, “there is weakness in its chain”, naming Rawwād ibn al-Jarrāḥ (Fatḥ al-Bārī 9/503; al-Talkhīṣ 4/1501); al-Shawkānī, Rawwād is weak (Nayl al-Awṭār 5/230). Via dorar.net.
Cited in Khitān: circumcising your baby boy
- Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār 6:751–752 (Kitāb al-Khunthā, Masāʾil shattā)
Circumcision is sunnah and one of the marks (shaʿāʾir) of Islam; if the people of a town agreed to abandon it, “the ruler would fight them” (ḥārabahum al-imām), as Ibn ʿĀbidīn explains, just as over abandoning the adhān. A weak view (qīla) says he is not circumcised until maturity. Its time is not fixed: some said before seven years, some ten, some twelve; “what counts is his ability to bear it, and this is the most fitting”; Abū Ḥanīfah said he knew of no set time. An old man who accepts Islam and whom experts say cannot bear it is left as he is.
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- al-Dardīr, al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr, with Ḥāshiyat al-Dasūqī 2:126 (Bāb al-ʿAqīqah)
It is disliked to circumcise the boy on the day of the ʿaqīqah (the seventh day), “because it is the practice of the Jews”; it is recommended at the age when he is told to pray; and for males it is sunnah.
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ Sharḥ al-Muhadhdhab 1:300–301 (Bāb al-Siwāk)
The sound, well-known position of the school, stated by al-Shāfiʿī and held by most of its authorities, is that circumcision is obligatory. Al-Nawawī notes that Mālik and Abū Ḥanīfah held it sunnah.
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ 1:302–303
The obligation begins at maturity, but the guardian is recommended to circumcise him young, “because it is gentler on him”. Several Shāfiʿī authors recommend the seventh day, not counting the day of birth according to most, unless the baby is too weak, in which case it is delayed until he can bear it; if not on the seventh day, then at forty days, and if not, in the seventh year.
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ 1:304
Once he reaches maturity it is due at once; but a man so frail that circumcision would put him in danger must not be circumcised until it is likely to be safe.
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ 1:308–309, quoting Ibn al-Mundhir, al-Ishrāf
Al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī and Mālik disliked the seventh day; Aḥmad said he had heard nothing about it; al-Layth said between seven and ten. Ibn al-Mundhir: there is no established prohibition about it, no fixed time to refer back to, and no sunnah to follow; things are permissible unless there is proof.
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- Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī 1:64 (Fuṣūl fī al-fiṭrah)
Circumcision is obligatory for men. If a grown man accepts Islam and fears for himself from it, it no longer applies to him, as washing and wuḍūʾ are lifted when he fears harm; if he is safe, he must do it. Aḥmad, asked about a convert: “He must do it,” citing Ibrāhīm’s circumcision at eighty. Al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī was lenient for converts: “People, black and white, accepted Islam, and none of them was inspected.”
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- al-Buhūtī, Kashshāf al-Qināʿ 1:178–181 (ed. Wizārat al-ʿAdl; Bāb al-Siwāk)
Circumcision of a male is obligatory, and the obligation begins at maturity; doing it in childhood, up to the age of discernment, is better, “because he heals faster”. It is disliked on the seventh day and from birth until then (al-Furūʿ notes most did not mention this dislike). A boy born without a foreskin has no obligation.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd bi-Aḥkām al-Mawlūd, ed. al-Arnaʾūṭ, pp. 180–182 (ch. 9, sec. 5)
The obligation begins at maturity. Ibn al-Qayyim: “In my view the guardian must circumcise the boy before maturity, so that he reaches it circumcised.”
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, pp. 183–185 (ch. 9, sec. 6)
Two reports from Aḥmad on the seventh day: he disliked it as the practice of the Jews, and he also said, “If he is circumcised on the seventh day there is no harm.” Wahb ibn Munabbih said it is preferred then because it is lighter on the baby. Ibn al-Mundhir: no proof forbids it.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, pp. 197–200 (ch. 9, sec. 12)
The obligation falls for a man who accepts Islam as an adult and fears for himself, according to the majority, as Aḥmad stated; al-Ḥasan said people of every nation accepted Islam in the Prophet’s ﷺ time and none were inspected. Saḥnūn disagreed. Where death is feared, it should not be done at all.
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- American Academy of Pediatrics, Task Force on Circumcision, “Circumcision Policy Statement”, Pediatrics 2012;130(3):585–586
The 2012 statement found that “the health benefits of newborn male circumcision outweigh the risks and that the procedure’s benefits justify access to this procedure for families who choose it.” The AAP’s own page now labels it “Expired. This policy automatically expired.” (AAP policy statements expire after five years unless reaffirmed, revised or retired.) Read in the Wayback Machine copy of 24 July 2024, because the live page refused our fetch on 9 October 2026; we found no newer AAP circumcision policy.
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- HealthyChildren.org (American Academy of Pediatrics), “Circumcision: A Parent’s Choice”, updated 10 October 2025
Parents’ views differ and the choice is theirs; talk to the doctor before the birth. It is usually done by a doctor in the first few days, under sterile conditions with pain relief, only when the baby is stable and healthy; it “may be riskier if done later in life”. Healing takes about a week to ten days. “Scientific studies show the health benefits of newborn male circumcision outweigh the risks of the procedure.”
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- Zambrano Navia M, et al., “State-Level Public Insurance Coverage and Neonatal Circumcision Rates”, Pediatrics 2020;146(5):e20201475
“Seventeen states do not provide Medicaid coverage for neonatal male circumcision.” Where Medicaid stopped paying (Florida 2003, Colorado 2011), fewer newborns were circumcised.
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- Soto S, et al., “Impact of Florida Medicaid guidelines on frequency and cost of delayed circumcision”, J Pediatr Urol 2022;18(6):834.e1–e7
Florida Medicaid stopped covering routine newborn circumcision in 2003 and covers it for a child of three or older only for a defined medical reason; the authors count Florida as one of 16 state plans that do not cover it. (A study finding as of 2022; individual managed-care plans may now differ: see humana-fl-expanded.)
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- Humana Healthy Horizons in Florida (Florida Medicaid managed care), “Expanded benefits” (viewed 2026-10-09)
“Newborn Circumcision: Your male baby is covered, 1 per lifetime for members age 0 to 28 days old. You pay nothing.” An example of one plan’s extra benefit, not an endorsement; other plans differ.
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- Ibn Ḥajar al-Haytamī, Tuḥfat al-Muḥtāj (Shāfiʿī) 9/200 (Kitāb al-Ṣiyāl, on khitān)
It is recommended to hasten it to his seventh day (the seventh day after birth); “it is disliked before the seventh”; if delayed, then at forty days, otherwise in the seventh year; the day of birth is not counted.
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- al-Ramlī, Nihāyat al-Muḥtāj (Shāfiʿī) 8/36–37 (Kitāb al-Ṣiyāl, on khitān)
The same as Tuḥfat al-Muḥtāj: recommended on the seventh day after birth, “and it is disliked before the seventh”; if delayed, at forty days, otherwise in the seventh year; the day of birth is not counted.
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Choosing a name
- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 2832
The Prophet ﷺ ordered that the newborn be named on his seventh day, the harm removed from him, and the ʿaqīqah made.
Grading: al-Tirmidhī: ḥasan gharīb. al-Albānī: ḥasan (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Tirmidhī 2832).
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2315
The Prophet ﷺ said: “A son was born to me last night, and I have named him after my forefather Ibrāhīm.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6198
Under the chapter “Whoever names with the names of the prophets”: Abū Mūsā’s newborn son was named Ibrāhīm by the Prophet ﷺ.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6191
Al-Mundhir ibn Abī Usayd was brought to the Prophet ﷺ when born. “What is his name?” “So-and-so.” “No, his name is al-Mundhir.” He was named al-Mundhir that day.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 8 §1, pp. 102–111
Aḥmad cited Samurah (named on the seventh day). Al-Bayhaqī judged naming at birth the sounder practice. Ibn al-Qayyim: a name may be given on the day of birth, within three days, or on the day of the ʿaqīqah, before or after; “the matter is wide.”
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 8 §5, p. 135
Naming is the father’s right; if the parents disagree, his choice stands. The child is called after his father (“Call them by their fathers”, al-Aḥzāb 33:5).
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- al-Ḥaṭṭāb, Mawāhib al-Jalīl (Mālikī) 3/256
Ibn al-Qāsim heard: the child is named on his seventh day, “and there is latitude in it”, because of the reports of naming at birth. Ibn Ḥabīb: names may be chosen before the seventh day but given on it. A child for whom no ʿaqīqah will be made, because the family cannot afford it, may be named whenever they wish. The jurists of the cities permit the kunyah Abū al-Qāsim; the prohibition is abrogated.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2132
“The names most beloved to Allah among your names are ʿAbdullāh and ʿAbd al-Raḥmān.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2135
Asked why Maryam is called “sister of Hārūn”, the Prophet ﷺ said: “They used to name after their prophets and the righteous before them.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3539
“Name with my name, but do not take my kunyah.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6187
A man of the Anṣār named his son al-Qāsim; people would not call him Abū al-Qāsim until they had asked the Prophet ﷺ, who said: “Name with my name, but do not take my kunyah.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2131
A man called out “Abū al-Qāsim!” at al-Baqīʿ and the Prophet ﷺ turned. The man said he meant someone else, and the Prophet ﷺ said: “Name with my name, but do not take my kunyah.”
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 8 §2, pp. 111–113; pp. 127–129
ʿAbdullāh and ʿAbd al-Raḥmān are the most beloved names (the ṣaḥīḥ ḥadīth), though Saʿīd ibn al-Musayyib preferred the prophets’ names. Naming after prophets is not disliked, per most scholars, “and that is correct”. Ṭalḥah named his ten sons after prophets.
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- Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār (Ḥanafī) 6/417–418
The most beloved names are ʿAbdullāh and ʿAbd al-Raḥmān; al-Munāwī: then Muḥammad, Aḥmad, Ibrāhīm. ʿAlī and Rashīd are allowed. One named Muḥammad may take the kunyah Abū al-Qāsim; the prohibition is abrogated. An ugly name is changed. Do not name Yasār, Rabāḥ, Najāḥ, Aflaḥ, Barakah, nor with self-praise like al-Rashīd and al-Amīn. Ibn ʿĀbidīn derives a prohibition of ʿAbd al-Nabī from “nor ʿAbd so-and-so”, and quotes al-Munāwī from al-Damīrī: some allowed it, “and most are for prohibition”. A kunyah for a small child is not disliked, since people mean it as a good omen.
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ (Shāfiʿī) 8/434–441
Naming on the seventh day is recommended, and before or after is allowed. Prophets’ and angels’ names are allowed per the madhhab and the majority. Ugly names, and names whose denial sounds like a bad omen, are disliked. “King of Kings” is forbidden. An ugly name should be changed. A kunyah is allowed, even for a small child, and for women too. On Abū al-Qāsim, al-Shāfiʿī forbade it for anyone; Mālik allowed it.
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- al-Buhūtī, Kashshāf al-Qināʿ (Ḥanbalī) 3/25–28
Named on the seventh day (al-Riʿāyah: on the day of birth); naming belongs to the father. Make the name good. Disliked: Ḥarb, Murrah, Ḥazn, Nāfiʿ, Yasār, Aflaḥ, Najīḥ, Barakah, and self-praising names; this is “not ḥarām”. Forbidden: “King of Kings” and the like, names fit only for Allah (Quddūs, al-Barr, Khāliq, Raḥmān), and ʿAbd joined to other than Allah (Ibn Ḥazm’s consensus). Jibrīl and Yāsīn are not disliked. The kunyah Abū al-Qāsim is not disliked after the Prophet’s ﷺ death. A small child, boy or girl, may be given a kunyah.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2139a
Ibn ʿUmar: the Messenger of Allah ﷺ changed the name ʿĀṣiyah (“disobedient”) and said, “You are Jamīlah (“beautiful”).”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6192
Zaynab’s name was Barrah (“pious”); it was said she was praising herself, so the Messenger of Allah ﷺ named her Zaynab.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2142a
Zaynab bint Abī Salamah: my name was Barrah and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ named me Zaynab; Zaynab bint Jaḥsh was also called Barrah, and he named her Zaynab.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6190
Ḥazn (“rough ground”) came to the Prophet ﷺ, who said, “You are Sahl (“easy”).” He said, “I will not change a name my father gave me.” His grandson Saʿīd ibn al-Musayyib said: “The roughness has stayed among us ever since.”
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4954
A man named Aṣram (“cut off”) came to the Prophet ﷺ, who said: “No, you are Zurʿah (“a sown field”).”
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 4954).
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4955
Hāniʾ was called Abū al-Ḥakam. The Prophet ﷺ said, “Allah is al-Ḥakam (the Judge)… Who is your eldest child?” “Shurayḥ.” “Then you are Abū Shurayḥ.”
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 4955).
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4956
Abū Dāwūd lists names the Prophet ﷺ changed: al-ʿĀṣ, ʿAzīz, ʿAtalah, Shayṭān, al-Ḥakam, Ghurāb, Ḥubāb and Shihāb (he named one Hishām), Ḥarb to Silm, and a place called ʿAfirah (“barren”) to Khaḍirah (“green”).
Grading: The Ḥazn ḥadīth at the head of 4956: ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 4956). The list of changed names is Abū Dāwūd’s own note, given without chains (“I omitted their chains for brevity”), so it has no grading of its own.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 8 §3, pp. 129–134
Changing a name to a better one, for its ugliness or for another good reason such as avoiding self-praise (Barrah to Zaynab). Examples from the Sunnah and the Companions.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6205
“The most despicable name before Allah on the Day of Resurrection is that of a man called Malik al-Amlāk (King of Kings).”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2143a
“The lowest name before Allah is a man who calls himself King of Kings.” Sufyān: like “Shāhān Shāh”. In another narration: “There is no king but Allah.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2136
Samurah: the Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade us to give our servants four names: Aflaḥ, Rabāḥ, Yasār and Nāfiʿ.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2137
“Do not name your boy Yasār, Rabāḥ, Najīḥ or Aflaḥ, for you will ask, ‘Is he there?’ and when he is not, the answer will be ‘No’.”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2138
Jābir: the Prophet ﷺ intended to forbid the names Yaʿlā, Barakah, Aflaḥ, Yasār and Nāfiʿ, then said nothing more about it and passed away without forbidding it; ʿUmar too intended to forbid it, then left it.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 8 §2, pp. 113–127
Ibn Ḥazm reports agreement that every name making one the servant of other than Allah is forbidden (ʿAbd al-ʿUzzā, ʿAbd Hubal, ʿAbd ʿAmr, ʿAbd al-Kaʿbah…), except ʿAbd al-Muṭṭalib; so ʿAbd ʿAlī and ʿAbd al-Ḥusayn are not permitted. Forbidden: King of Kings, Sulṭān al-Salāṭīn, Sayyid al-Nās, and Allah’s own names (al-Aḥad, al-Ṣamad, al-Khāliq, al-Razzāq). Disliked: Yasār, Rabāḥ, Najīḥ, Aflaḥ and the like (Mubārak, Mufliḥ, Khayr, Surūr, Niʿmah), names of devils and tyrants, and ugly meanings. Mālik disliked Yāsīn; it is not authentic that Ṭāhā and Yāsīn are names of the Prophet ﷺ.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6203
Anas had a little brother called Abū ʿUmayr; the Prophet ﷺ would say to him, “Abū ʿUmayr, what happened to the little bird?”
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2150
The same report of Abū ʿUmayr, who had just been weaned.
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4970
ʿĀʾishah said, “Messenger of Allah, all my companions have a kunyah.” He said, “Then take your kunyah from your son ʿAbdullāh” (her sister’s son, ʿAbdullāh ibn al-Zubayr), and she was called Umm ʿAbdillāh.
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 4970; al-Silsilah al-Ṣaḥīḥah 132).
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4967
ʿAlī: “Messenger of Allah, if a son is born to me after you, may I give him your name and your kunyah?” He said, “Yes.”
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 4967).
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Zād al-Maʿād 2/316–317
“The correct view is that taking his name is permitted, taking his kunyah is prevented, the prevention was stronger in his lifetime, and combining the two is prevented.” He adds that ʿAlī called his permission “a concession for me”.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 8 §§4 and 7, pp. 134–144
A newborn may be given a kunyah, and a man may take one before he has children or after a child of another name (Abū Bakr, ʿUmar’s Abū Ḥafṣ). On Abū al-Qāsim the scholars differ: forbidden always, forbidden only with the name Muḥammad, or permitted after the Prophet’s ﷺ lifetime.
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4948
“You will be called on the Day of Resurrection by your names and your fathers’ names, so make your names good.”
Grading: ḍaʿīf: Abū Dāwūd himself said Ibn Abī Zakariyyā did not meet Abū al-Dardāʾ. al-Albānī: ḍaʿīf (Ḍaʿīf Abī Dāwūd 4948; al-Ḍaʿīfah 5460). al-Bayhaqī: mursal. al-Mundhirī: munqaṭiʿ. Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ: isnād ḍaʿīf. (Ibn al-Qayyim and al-Nawawī had described its chain as ḥasan or jayyid.)
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4950
“Name yourselves with the names of the prophets. The names most beloved to Allah are ʿAbdullāh and ʿAbd al-Raḥmān, the truest are Ḥārith and Hammām, and the ugliest are Ḥarb and Murrah.”
Grading: al-Albānī: ṣaḥīḥ except the opening “Name yourselves with the names of the prophets”, which is weak (Ḍaʿīf Abī Dāwūd 4950; Irwāʾ 1178).
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4966
“Whoever takes my name should not take my kunyah, and whoever takes my kunyah should not take my name.”
Grading: munkar (al-Albānī).
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- California Department of Public Health, All County Letter 25-08, “Diacritical Marks” (12/23/2025)
AB 64 (2025) allows diacritical marks on certificates of live birth, from a list of ten marks (acute, grave, circumflex, umlaut, tilde, cedilla, ring, macron, breve, caron). “Starting July 1, 2026, CDPH-VR will begin amending records to include diacritical marks. No earlier than two years after the appropriation of funds, diacritical marks may be included upon registration.”
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- Texas Health and Safety Code §191.009, “Use of Diacritical Marks” (added 2017)
“The state registrar shall ensure that a vital statistics record issued under this title properly records any diacritical mark used in a person’s name.” Diacritical marks are defined as accents, tildes, graves, umlauts and cedillas. (Official text: statutes.capitol.texas.gov, HS 191.009.)
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- Rules of the Georgia Department of Public Health, Ga. Comp. R. & Regs. 511-1-3-.08, “Child Names on Birth Certificates”
“No portion of the child’s name as entered on the birth certificate shall include any number, symbol, or other non-identifying name information.” Parents may also choose a surname that is neither parent’s “in accordance with a bonafide cultural naming convention practiced in the nation of origin of one or both of them.”
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- NYC Department of Health, Birth Certificates
“Be careful when you fill out your baby’s full name and your mailing address. Correcting a birth certificate can cost money or even require a trip to court.”
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- New York State Department of Health, Vital Records
New York State vital records (outside New York City), including corrections and amendments (toll-free 855-322-1022). No published rule on name characters was found.
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- Illinois Department of Public Health, Birth, Death and Other Records
Illinois vital records and amendments. No published rule on name characters was found.
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The seventh day
- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2838
Samurah: the Prophet ﷺ said, “Every child is held in pledge by his ʿaqīqah: it is slaughtered for him on his seventh day, his head is shaved, and he is named.”
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 2838; Irwāʾ al-Ghalīl 1165). al-Tirmidhī (1522): ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ.
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2837
The same ḥadīth in Hammām’s wording “and smeared with blood” (wa-yudammā). Abū Dāwūd: this is Hammām’s mistake; the others narrated “and he is named” (wa-yusammā), and this wording is not acted upon.
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ except the words “wa-yudammā”; the preserved wording is “wa-yusammā” (al-Albānī).
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 1522
Samurah’s ḥadīth: “slaughter for him on the seventh day, name him, and shave his head.”
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (Darussalam on sunnah.com); al-Tirmidhī: ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5472
Salmān ibn ʿĀmir: “With a child comes an ʿaqīqah, so shed blood on his behalf and remove the harm from him.” It also confirms that al-Ḥasan heard the ʿaqīqah ḥadīth from Samurah.
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2834
Umm Kurz: “For a boy, two matching sheep; for a girl, one.” Aḥmad explained “matching” as equal or close (in age).
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 2834).
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 1516
Umm Kurz: “For a boy two sheep and for a girl one, and it does not harm you whether they are male or female.”
Grading: al-Tirmidhī: ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ.
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 1513
ʿĀʾishah: the Messenger of Allah ﷺ instructed them: for a boy two matching sheep, and for a girl one.
Grading: al-Tirmidhī: ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ. al-Albānī: ṣaḥīḥ (Irwāʾ al-Ghalīl 1166).
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2842
Asked about the ʿaqīqah, the Prophet ﷺ said, “Allah does not love ʿuqūq”, as if disliking the word, and: “Whoever has a child and would love to offer a sacrifice for him, let him do so: for a boy two matching sheep, and for a girl one.”
Grading: ḥasan (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 2842); ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ al-Nasāʾī 4223).
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- Muwaṭṭaʾ Mālik, Kitāb al-ʿAqīqah 26/1 and 26/4
The Prophet ﷺ said, “Whoever has a child and wants to sacrifice for him, let him do so” (26/1). Ibn ʿUmar gave one sheep each for his sons and his daughters (26/4).
Grading: 26/1 is mursal (from a man of Banū Ḍamrah from his father); its meaning is in Abū Dāwūd 2842, which al-Albānī graded ḥasan.
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2841
Ibn ʿAbbās: the Messenger of Allah ﷺ offered the ʿaqīqah for al-Ḥasan and al-Ḥusayn, a ram for each.
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ, though al-Nasāʾī’s wording “two rams each” is sounder (al-Albānī).
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- Sunan al-Nasāʾī 4219
Ibn ʿAbbās: the Messenger of Allah ﷺ offered the ʿaqīqah for al-Ḥasan and al-Ḥusayn with two rams each.
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ (Darussalam; al-Albānī judged this wording the sounder).
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 1519
ʿAlī: the Messenger of Allah ﷺ made the ʿaqīqah for al-Ḥasan with a sheep and said, “Fāṭimah, shave his head and give the weight of his hair in silver.” It weighed a dirham or part of one.
Grading: Graded differently. al-Tirmidhī: “ḥasan gharīb, and its chain is not connected” (Muḥammad ibn ʿAlī did not meet ʿAlī). al-Albānī: ḥasan (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Tirmidhī 1519), with a supporting chain (Irwāʾ 1175). al-Bayhaqī and Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ: munqaṭiʿ (broken). Ibn Bāz: the weighing of the hair is not authentic.
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- Muwaṭṭaʾ Mālik, Kitāb al-ʿAqīqah 26/2–3
Fāṭimah, daughter of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, weighed the hair of Ḥasan, Ḥusayn, Zaynab and Umm Kulthūm, and gave its weight in silver in charity.
Grading: A report of Fāṭimah’s practice through Muḥammad al-Bāqir, who did not meet her (mursal).
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 7, pp. 97–100
Scholars recommended shaving the baby’s head at the ʿaqīqah (Ibn ʿAbd al-Barr). Aḥmad: recommended on the seventh day, “no harm” in giving its weight in silver. Fāṭimah did so for her children. The Prophet ﷺ forbade qazaʿ, shaving part of a child’s head and leaving part (Ibn ʿUmar, in Bukhārī and Muslim); al-Nawawī classes it as disliked (karāhat tanzīh).
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- Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2843
Buraydah: before Islam, when a boy was born we slaughtered a sheep and smeared his head with its blood. When Allah brought Islam, we slaughtered a sheep, shaved his head and anointed it with saffron.
Grading: ḥasan ṣaḥīḥ (al-Albānī, Ṣaḥīḥ Abī Dāwūd 2843).
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 5308
ʿĀʾishah: before Islam they dipped cotton in the ʿaqīqah’s blood and put it on the shaved head of the baby. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Put perfume (khalūq) in place of the blood.”
Grading: ṣaḥīḥ: al-Albānī (al-Silsilah al-Ṣaḥīḥah 463; Irwāʾ 4/389), Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ, and Ibn Ḥajar (“isnāduhu ṣaḥīḥ”).
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- Buraydah (marfūʿ), al-Ṭabarānī, al-Muʿjam al-Awsaṭ 4882; al-Bayhaqī, al-Sunan al-Kubrā 19771
“The ʿaqīqah is slaughtered on the seventh, the fourteenth or the twenty-first.”
Grading: Disputed. al-Albānī: ḍaʿīf in Irwāʾ al-Ghalīl 1170, but ṣaḥīḥ in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Jāmiʿ 4132. al-Ṭabarānī: only Ismāʿīl ibn Muslim narrated it from Qatādah. al-Suyūṭī: ṣaḥīḥ.
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- ʿĀʾishah (her own saying), al-Ḥākim, al-Mustadrak 7804; Ibn al-Mundhir
“The sunnah is two matching sheep for a boy and one for a girl, cut at the joints with no bone broken; one eats, feeds and gives charity; on the seventh day, or else the fourteenth, or else the twenty-first.”
Grading: Disputed. al-Ḥākim: ṣaḥīḥ al-isnād. al-Albānī: the chain looks sound but has defects: a break, irregularity and an inserted phrase (Irwāʾ 4/395; maʿlūl, Irwāʾ 1179). Ibn Ḥazm: not authentic (al-Muḥallā 7/529).
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- Anas, al-Bayhaqī, al-Sunan al-Kubrā 9/300; al-Ṭabarānī, al-Awsaṭ 994
The Prophet ﷺ made an ʿaqīqah for himself after he became a prophet.
Grading: Disputed. al-Bayhaqī: munkar. al-Nawawī: bāṭil (al-Majmūʿ 8/431). Ibn Ḥajar: not established (Fatḥ al-Bārī 9/509). Its well-known narrator ʿAbdullāh ibn Muḥarrar is abandoned. al-Albānī: “its chain is ḥasan” through another route (al-Silsilah al-Ṣaḥīḥah 2726).
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- Muḥammad al-Bāqir (mursal), Abū Dāwūd, al-Marāsīl 379
About the ʿaqīqah Fāṭimah made for al-Ḥasan and al-Ḥusayn: “Send a leg to the midwife, eat and feed others, and do not break any of its bones.”
Grading: mursal (a Successor reporting from the Prophet ﷺ): Ibn Ḥazm, Ibn al-Qayyim (Zād al-Maʿād 2/303); Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ: broken chain.
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- ʿĀʾishah, via Ibn al-Mundhir; quoted in Kashshāf al-Qināʿ 3/31
At the slaughter say: “In the name of Allah. O Allah, for You and to You: this is the ʿaqīqah of so-and-so.” (In Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, Ibn al-Mundhir narrates it from ʿĀʾishah from the Prophet ﷺ: “Slaughter in his name and say…”)
Grading: Ibn al-Mundhir: ḥasan. al-ʿIrāqī (Ṭarḥ al-Tathrīb 5/212): one chain has a weak narrator, and it was also narrated with a ḥasan chain.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §§1–7, pp. 36–61
The ʿaqīqah is a sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ, practised in Madīnah; the reports against it “are nothing”. Obligation versus recommendation: Aḥmad would not call it obligatory, but said, “I would not like one who is able to leave it.” If he must borrow, “I hope Allah replaces it for him; he has revived a sunnah.”
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §8, pp. 62–63; §22, pp. 94–96
Aḥmad: on the seventh day, otherwise the fourteenth, otherwise the twenty-first. Mālik: the day of birth is not counted unless the baby was born before dawn. “The restriction is one of recommendation: if he slaughtered on the fourth, eighth, tenth or later, it is valid.”
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §10, pp. 65–68
The ʿaqīqah is for girls as well as boys, against those who limited it to boys. Two for a boy and one for a girl, per the ḥadīths of Umm Kurz and ʿĀʾishah; Mālik and Ibn ʿUmar: one for each.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §11, pp. 69–75
The purposes of the ʿaqīqah: an offering for the child at the start of life, a ransom like the ram that ransomed Ismāʿīl, and a meal of thanks at a great joy. On “held in pledge”, Aḥmad said: held back from interceding for his parents. Ibn al-Qayyim prefers: freed by it from Shayṭān’s hold.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §§12–13 and 17, pp. 75–80, 84–86
Cooking it is better than giving it raw: it spares the poor and the neighbours the work, and cooked food brings more joy. Not breaking the bones is a good omen for the child’s soundness (Aḥmad); Mālik and al-Zuhrī allowed breaking them. Eat, gift and give in charity, and send something to the midwife.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §§14–16, pp. 80–84
Only what is valid as an uḍḥiyah is valid as an ʿaqīqah (Ibn ʿAbd al-Barr reports consensus). One animal per child; Aḥmad did not favour one camel for seven children. Mālik: sheep are dearest to him.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §3, pp. 43–45; §11, p. 71
Smearing the baby with blood was a Jāhiliyyah practice. The Prophet ﷺ replaced it with saffron; al-Zuhrī, Mālik, al-Shāfiʿī, Aḥmad and Isḥāq disliked smearing with blood. The “wa-yudammā” wording is Hammām’s mistake.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §19, pp. 87–88
Aḥmad: “that is on the father”, yet he approved of one doing it for himself as an adult if it was not done: “whoever does it, that is good.” Aḥmad called the Ibn Muḥarrar report of the Prophet ﷺ doing it for himself munkar.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §21, pp. 93–94
Say “Bismillāh” and name the child whose ʿaqīqah it is. Ibn al-Mundhir: “this is ḥasan; and if he intends the ʿaqīqah and does not say it aloud, it suffices.” Aḥmad: say Bismillāh and slaughter with the intention.
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- Ibn al-Qayyim, Tuḥfat al-Mawdūd, ch. 6 §18, pp. 86–87
When the ʿaqīqah and the uḍḥiyah coincide, three reports from Aḥmad: one animal counts for both, it counts for whichever was intended, or no answer.
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- Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār (Ḥanafī) 6/336
Name the child on his seventh day, shave his head, and (according to “the three imams”) give the hair’s weight in silver or gold. Then the ʿaqīqah, as something permitted (ibāḥah) or voluntary (taṭawwuʿ): one sheep fit for an uḍḥiyah, for a boy and a girl alike. Raw or cooked, bones broken or not, with an invitation or without. Al-Shāfiʿī and Aḥmad hold it a confirmed sunnah: two sheep for a boy, one for a girl.
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- al-Dardīr, al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr, with al-Dasūqī’s Ḥāshiyah (Mālikī) 2/126
Recommended for the father, from his own wealth: one animal valid as an uḍḥiyah, boy or girl alike, on the seventh day, by day. The day of birth is not counted if the baby was born after dawn. Its time lapses at sunset of the seventh (a weaker view allows the second and third weeks). Shave the head even of a girl, and give its weight in gold or silver. Breaking the bones is allowed. Making it a walīmah that people are invited to is disliked; it is cooked and eaten by the family and others in their own places. Smearing the baby with its blood is disliked.
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- al-Ḥaṭṭāb, Mawāhib al-Jalīl (Mālikī) 3/256–257
The ʿaqīqah is slaughtered by day; the preferred time is mid-morning to noon, it is disliked from just after noon (zawāl) until sunset, and between dawn and sunrise; at night it is not valid.
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ (Shāfiʿī) 8/429–433
A confirmed sunnah: two sheep for a boy and one for a girl; one for a boy achieves the basic sunnah. Same conditions as the uḍḥiyah; a cow or camel may be shared by seven. Joints separated without breaking bones (if broken, it is against the better course, not disliked). Cooked, ideally sweet; sending it to the poor is better than inviting them, but both are allowed. The day of birth is counted among the seven; if born at night, the following day. It does not lapse, but should not be delayed past puberty; then the person may do it for himself. Smearing with blood is disliked; saffron is recommended. Shave on the seventh and give the hair’s weight in gold, else silver, boy and girl alike.
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- al-Nawawī, al-Majmūʿ 8/447
Al-Shāfiʿī: “Two men went to extremes about the ʿaqīqah: one said it is obligatory and one said it is an innovation.” Recommended per Mālik, Abū Thawr, the majority, and the sound position of Aḥmad.
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- Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī) 9/459–463
A sunnah per most scholars; not obligatory. Better than giving its value in charity. Two matching sheep for a boy and one for a girl; one for a boy is valid. On the seventh day, then the fourteenth, then the twenty-first (from ʿĀʾishah); before or after is still valid. Shave the boy’s head and name him on the seventh; giving the hair’s weight in silver is good; naming before the seventh is allowed. Smearing with blood is disliked. Its meat is like the uḍḥiyah’s, cooked in pieces without breaking bones.
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- al-Buhūtī, Kashshāf al-Qināʿ (Ḥanbalī) 3/25–31
A sunnah for the father; if two sheep are not possible, one; he may borrow if able to repay. The child does not do it for himself when grown (Aḥmad), but if he does it is not disliked, and a group of Ḥanbalīs recommend it. Seventh, fourteenth, twenty-first, then any day; “it is not limited to childhood”. Shave a boy’s head, not a girl’s, on the seventh, and give its weight in silver. Saffron is fine; blood is disliked. Cooked with water and salt, no bones broken; give the midwife a thigh.
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- Ibn ʿUthaymīn, al-Sharḥ al-Mumtiʿ ʿalā Zād al-Mustaqniʿ (Ḥanbalī) 7/493–495
Slaughter on the seventh day: “if born on Saturday, slaughter on Friday, one day before the weekday of birth; this is the rule.” If no barber can shave a newborn safely, estimate the hair’s weight in silver.
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- al-Mawsūʿah al-Fiqhiyyah al-Kuwaytiyyah 30/278–279, “ʿAqīqah”
The majority count the day of birth among the seven; if born at night, the following day is counted. The Mālikīs do not count the day of birth for one born after dawn.
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- Qurʾān, al-Baqarah 2:286
Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear.
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- Penny Appeal USA, Aqiqah Program (price page, viewed 2026-10-09)
“The sunnah is to sacrifice two goats for a boy and one goat for a girl. The current price of a goat is $190 but is subject to change.” The country is chosen by the charity.
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- Human Appeal USA, Aqiqa (price page, viewed 2026-10-09)
Aqiqa (boy) $320; Aqiqa (girl) $160.
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When a baby dies
- Qurʾān, al-Baqarah 2:156
Those who, when a hardship strikes them, say: we belong to Allah, and to Him we return.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1248
Anas: the Prophet ﷺ said, there is no Muslim whose three children die before reaching maturity, but Allah brings him into Paradise by the grace of His mercy to them.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1381
Anas: any Muslim whose three children die before maturity, Allah brings him into Paradise by the grace of His mercy to them.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6424
Abū Hurayrah: the Prophet ﷺ said, Allah says: My believing servant has no reward with Me, when I take back his dearest one from the people of this world and he bears it hoping for My reward, except Paradise.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1249–1250 (also 101)
Abū Saʿīd: the women asked the Prophet ﷺ for a day of their own. He taught them and said: any woman whose three children die, they will be a screen for her from the Fire. A woman asked: and two? He said: and two. Abū Hurayrah added: who had not reached maturity.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2635
Abū Ḥassān told Abū Hurayrah that two of his children had died and asked for something to comfort them. He said: their little ones are the little ones of Paradise. One of them meets his father, or his parents, and takes hold of his garment or his hand, and does not let go until Allah brings him and his father into Paradise.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1303
As his baby son Ibrāhīm was dying, the Prophet’s ﷺ eyes filled with tears. Asked about it, he said: this is mercy. The eye weeps and the heart grieves, and we say only what pleases our Lord; and we are grieving at parting from you, O Ibrāhīm.
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- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1382
Al-Barāʾ: when Ibrāhīm, the Prophet’s ﷺ son, died, he said: he has a wet-nurse in Paradise.
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- Sunan al-Nasāʾī 1870
A man used to bring his little son to the Prophet ﷺ. The boy died, and the Prophet ﷺ said to him: would it not please you that you will not come to any gate of Paradise without finding him there, hurrying to open it for you?
Grading: Ṣaḥīḥ: al-Albānī (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Nasāʾī); Darussalam (on sunnah.com); Ibn Ḥajar, “its chain is ṣaḥīḥ” (Fatḥ al-Bārī 3/145); al-Arnaʾūṭ, “its chain is ṣaḥīḥ” (takhrīj of Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 2947). Via dorar.net.
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- Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 1021
When a servant’s child dies, Allah asks the angels: did you take the fruit of his heart? What did My servant say? They say: he praised You and said “we belong to Allah and to Him we return”. Allah says: build for My servant a house in Paradise, and call it the House of Praise.
Grading: Ḥasan: al-Tirmidhī (ḥasan gharīb); al-Albānī (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Tirmidhī 1021; Ṣaḥīḥ al-Jāmiʿ 795; ḥasan li-ghayrihi in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Targhīb 2012); Ibn Ḥajar (ḥasan). Graded weak by Darussalam (on sunnah.com) and, for its chain in Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 2948, by al-Arnaʾūṭ, who graded it ḥasan in his takhrīj of Riyāḍ al-Ṣāliḥīn 1395. Via dorar.net.
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- Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī 2:389
Ibn al-Mundhir: the scholars agree that a child known to have been born alive, who cried out, is prayed over; such a child is washed and prayed over “without disagreement”. For a baby born without showing life (istihlāl: crying or another sign of life), the scholars differ about the funeral prayer: after four months Aḥmad said it is washed and prayed over; Mālik and the Ḥanafīs said it is not prayed over unless it showed life; al-Shāfiʿī had both views. (This passage concerns the prayer; washing has its own details in each school.)
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- Life Is Temporary, “When a child dies” (Inheriting Islam)
The full guide: a miscarriage before about four months, a loss after four months or a stillbirth, a baby who lived even briefly, an older child; washing, shrouding, naming and the janāzah prayer in all four schools; the mother after a loss; paperwork by country.
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- Life Is Temporary, “Grief support”
Muslim and general grief support, with crisis lines.
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